Truth Tribe Accountability Available 1/23/22
We can hold you accountable to some change, challenge, or goal—with truthful affirmations and/or scripture…
“I Can’t Heal Right Now”
What do you mean you can’t heal right now? Actually, you can’t afford not…
My Daughter Created a Cartoon Show & Hired Me As the Writer!
Look at this…
LIED, Pt. 1 – Repent Or Confront? | Truth Tribe Challenge #2
Peace Truth Tribe! Are you up for the 𝑾𝒆𝒆𝒌𝒍𝒚 𝑻𝒓𝒖𝒕𝒉 𝑻𝒓𝒊𝒃𝒆 𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒈𝒆? Each 1st and 3rd Tuesday at 12 pm EST we challenge ourselves to 𝐑𝐄𝐏𝐄𝐍𝐓 to or 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐍𝐓 someone in regards to a particular theme. Then, we update each other on the 2nd and 4th Tuesday, same time.
Chapter 10 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
How to Feel Better (Pt.1) | Free From Anxiety, Low Energy, Brain Fog, Bad Periods +More
Feel anxious? Fresh air hard to breathe in? Sluggish and depressed? Mind all over? Watch this video for tips to help.
PROVOKED, Pt. 2 – Repent Or Confront? | Truth Tribe Challenge #1
Are you up for the 𝑾𝒆𝒆𝒌𝒍𝒚 𝑻𝒓𝒖𝒕𝒉 𝑻𝒓𝒊𝒃𝒆 𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒈𝒆? Each 1st and 3rd Tuesday at 12 pm EST we challenge ourselves to 𝐑𝐄𝐏𝐄𝐍𝐓 to or 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐍𝐓 someone in regards to a particular theme. Then, we update each other on the 2nd and 4th Tuesday, same time.
‘Cause I Want You to Feel Better
Constantly working on Truth Tribe content…from videos to coaching, groups, podcasts, emails, posts and more. ‘Cause I’m SO…
5 Signs They’re Using Manipulation to Control You
Make sure you can spot these signs of manipulation to control, in order to…
Chapter 8 & 9 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
Defeated?
Here’s a tip, easy too, if you feel defeated right now…
PROVOKED, Pt. 1 – Repent Or Confront? | Truth Tribe Challenge #1
Peace Truth Tribe! Are you up for the 𝑾𝒆𝒆𝒌𝒍𝒚 𝑻𝒓𝒖𝒕𝒉 𝑻𝒓𝒊𝒃𝒆 𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒈𝒆? Each 1st and 3rd Tuesday at 12 pm EST we challenge ourselves to 𝐑𝐄𝐏𝐄𝐍𝐓 to or 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐍𝐓 someone in regards to a particular theme. Then, we update each other on the 2nd and 4th Tuesday, same time.
Even Though It Hurts, Some People Stay There
Sometimes we live with pain because it’s comfortable and…
True Emotional Health Strongly Linked to Spiritual Health | Zara’s Study Guide
Want to grow emotionally? It’s nearly impossible without spiritual health. Find the inspiration you need to…
They Won’t Get It, Stop
This might be for you to accept today…
Ep. 24 – Lie: “I’m Scared, But I Can’t Admit It”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you can’t admit you’re scared, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
We Don’t Need to Wait For the Horrible First
Some people are waiting for the horrible to happen first. You don’t…
Are You Caged In, Or…
You might be CAGED in and don’t even know it. A sure sign they’re a cage, includes…
Ep. 23 – Lie: “I Can’t Repent Or Confront”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you can’t repent or confront, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Whoa, Break the Boundary?
When people try to guilt, shame or manipulate you into breaking a boundary…
Join the Weekly Truth Tribe Challenge | FAQ
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Are you up for the 𝑾𝒆𝒆𝒌𝒍𝒚 𝑻𝒓𝒖𝒕𝒉 𝑻𝒓𝒊𝒃𝒆 𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒈𝒆 to help you walk in truth so you can stop guilt, resolve hurtful relationships, and feel support?
Chapter 7 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
Go Back, Please (+Requested Tips)
Something to consider.
Ep. 22 – Lie: “You Must Tolerate the Toxic to Honor Your Parents”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you must tolerate the toxicity of an unhealthy parent in order to show respect, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Love Is Not Breaking You
A codependent person is someone who assumes responsibility for meeting another person’s needs, by prohibiting themselves from acknowledging their own needs and feelings. Even often feeling worthless unless they…
No, Thank You
Something to consider.
“You just gon’ use my furniture tho?” | Questioning Friendship
Something to consider.
5 Thoughts That Keep You From Healing Childhood Damage
Swipe to see 5 different thoughts that keep you bound up in childhood pain, hurt, and/or trauma. Hope it helps you recognize any thoughts you need to correct and free yourself from. SHARE
I’ll Cry.
Something to consider.
Y’all Not Feeling It the Same?
Consider this…
Takers… (+Loneliness)
Something to consider.
It’s Not Your Fault…
If they repent and add to that healing, it’s just “icing on the cake.” Yet, some people will…
Ep. 21 – Lie: “Feelings Are False”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that your feelings are false, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Hell.
Something to consider.
5 Things An Unhealthy Family Tries to Make You Do
Swipe to see 5 examples of what UNhealthy family pushes you to do. Hope it helps you recognize any areas you need to free yourself from. SHARE
Canceled.
Here’s what happened.
Is Their Apology Authentic? 5 Examples to Help You Decide
When we fall for or accept fraudulent apologies we enter a cycle of hurt—they trespass > we hurt > it’s not corrected > repeat. Swipe to see 5 examples of a non-apology vs. an authentic apology, so you can help them better understand what you need to experience a healthier relationship (non-romantic, romantic, family, friendship, etc.). SHARE
Chapter 6 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
After-Show LIVE 19-20 | Lies About Letting Go Vs. Leaving It Be | “What Kind of Love Is This?”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. We uncovered whether you’re living the lie that you can’t let go plus that it’s best to leave it be, in this month’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast episodes. Let’s chat about Ep. 19 and 20 LIVE. Make sure you listen BEFORE we discuss them!
Ep. 20 – Lie: “It’s Best I Just Let It Be”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s best you just let it be, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Chapter 4 & 5 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
5 Signs You Need to Set a Boundary
Warning signs help us know where a boundary needs to be set, here are a few examples. SHARE
Chapter 2 & 3 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
“Dad Doesn’t Love You, Mom”
Something to consider…
Chapter 1 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
5 Red-Flag Feelings & What They Show We’re Missing
Yah gave us emotions for a reason, negative feelings warn us something needs to change. Swipe to see a few examples of what I mean. SHARE
Ep. 19 – Lie: “I Can’t Let Go!”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you can’t let go, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Help!
Something to consider…
5 Signs They’re Not Good For Your Heart
I know, I’ve been there too…and thankfully, I don’t live there anymore. You can move too. Swipe to see five examples. SHARE
Bad Company
Something to consider…
After-Show LIVE 17-18 | Lies About Abuse Series | “What Kind of Love Is This?”
REPLAY: Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. We uncovered whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really narcissistic or emotional abuse, in the latest episodes of the “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. Let’s chat about Ep. 17 and 18 LIVE.
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Ep. 18 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Emotional) Abuse” [Pt. 4]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really emotional abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Who Can I Run To?
Something to consider…
Only For the Lonely
Something to consider…
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Ep. 17 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Narcissistic) Abuse” [Pt. 3]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really narcissistic abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Blood On Your Hands?
Something to consider…
Waiting For My Husband…
Here’s something to consider….
“How’s Africa?”
Everybody’s asking, “How’s Africa?” Well,…
LIVE: Trapped In a Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships
Let’s talk about my novel “It Came 2 Pass” LIVE w/ a special guest, on how Book 1 in the series opened their eyes and shifted their mindset. You can experience behind-the-story insight and answers to some of your questions about the story inspired by my true life events.
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Ep. 16 – Lie: “Truth Hurts More Than Lies” [Throwback]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that truth hurts more than the lies you believe, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
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Ep. 15 – Lie: “Forgiveness Requires Reconciliation” [Throwback]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that forgiveness requires you to reconcile with an offender, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
After-Show LIVE 14 | Lies About Spiritual Abuse | “What Kind of Love Is This?”
REPLAY: Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. We uncovered whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really spiritual abuse, in the latest episode of the “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. Let’s chat about Ep. 14 LIVE.
![Ep. 14 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Spiritual) Abuse” [Pt. 2]](https://i0.wp.com/zarahairston.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/EP-14-YT-COVER.jpeg?resize=400%2C250&ssl=1)
Ep. 14 – Lie: “That’s Not Really (Spiritual) Abuse” [Pt. 2]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really spiritual abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
After-Show LIVE 13 | Lies About Abuse That You Can’t See | “What Kind of Love Is This?”
REPLAY: We started to uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really abuse, in the latest episode of the “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast. Let’s chat about the episode LIVE.
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Ep. 13 – Lie: “That’s Not Really Abuse” [Pt. 1]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it’s not really abuse, on this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Ep. 12 – Lie: “I Just Have to Deal With the Way They Are”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you just have to accept who they are and what they do to you, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Ep. 11 – Lie: “It Will Work Itself Out”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that it will work itself out, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 24: Why You Got Issues?
Q: Did you know the issues you deal with in your life (even right now) come from whatever’s in your heart?
Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 23: Chill On All the Bad News
Q: What if you’re consuming so much information, it’s giving you debilitating fear?
Ep. 10 – Lie: “I Guess I Made the Wrong Choice”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you made the wrong choice because of their reaction, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 22: Cancel Defeat—You Have Power
Q: What if you had power over the circumstance, and all you had to do was 2 things to activate it?
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Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 21: Two Things That Keep You Depressed [VIDEO]
Q: Ever ask yourself why you’re depressed? Hear two things that typically keep you bound to gloom…and how to handle both.
Ep. 9 – Lie: “I Don’t Know What to Do”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you don’t know what to do about that toxic relationship, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
![Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 20: “Sorry” Ain’t Enough [VIDEO]](https://i0.wp.com/zarahairston.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/4-6-21-YT-SORRY-NOT-GOOD-ENOUGH.jpg?resize=400%2C250&ssl=1)
Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 20: “Sorry” Ain’t Enough [VIDEO]
Q: How can we tell if their apology is real? What happens when we accept fraudulent apologies as sincere?
NEW Things to Know – Watch Full Video
Here’s what’s changing. Plus, a few things you may not know already.
![[WATCH] Why I’m No Longer a Christian – Delivered From Christianity to Worship Yah In Spirit and Truth](https://i0.wp.com/zarahairston.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/IMG_1780.jpg?resize=400%2C250&ssl=1)
[WATCH] Why I’m No Longer a Christian – Delivered From Christianity to Worship Yah In Spirit and Truth
Ep. 8 – Lie: “I’m Fine…Everything’s Okay”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that you’re fine…and everything’s okay, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Ep. 7 – Lie: “They Didn’t Mean It”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that they didn’t mean it, in this episode of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Ep. 6 – Lie: “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 2]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s finish uncovering whether you’re living the lie that nothing’s changing, as we close out the second part of this 2-part talk of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Ep. 5 – Lie: “Nothing’s Changing” [Pt. 1]
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie that nothing’s changing, in this 2-part talk of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
S02E04 – Lie: “It’s My Fault”
Love doesn’t lie, or expect you to live one. Let’s uncover whether you’re living the lie of misplaced fault in this brand new season of Zara’s “What Kind of Love Is This?” podcast.
Love Without Truth Is Deceitful…
Love without truth is deceitful…so I just be trynna…
![Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 19: Bad Fruit [VIDEO]](https://i0.wp.com/zarahairston.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/TT-19.jpeg?resize=400%2C250&ssl=1)
Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 19: Bad Fruit [VIDEO]
Q: Does fruit produce from that relationship? Who/what needs to be hewn from your life?
“My Dog Understands Me”
No Weapon
“𝐍𝐨 𝐰𝐞𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐫; 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐧 𝐣𝐮𝐝𝐠𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐦𝐧. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬…”
…We Can Agree to Disagree
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Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 18: The Name Is Important [VIDEO]
Some of your favorite people worship another god and you don’t even know it, because many believe the term is universal. How do people know what god you’re talking about?
Juicing Is L I F E!
Ya’ll…juicing is L I F E. We switched juicers and got this cold-pressed one instead. Why?
Dear Husband,
Chapter 8 & 9 – It Came 2 Pass, Book 1
Read my novel with me, LIVE, chapter-by-chapter. Ask your questions too, I’ll take them once I complete the chapter!
That Relationship Is Toxic If…
Toxic relationships can literally kill you. Nah, I’m not exaggerating. I’ve been in too many of ‘em not to know that. And have even attempted suicide in the past, over it. So when I say it can KILL you, I MEAN that. If they don’t physically harm you, the…
Welcome Home, Judge
And guess what ya’ll, my daughter says, “Mom, you know what they call a judge, right?” I say, “Your H–” and choke up. She finishes,…
Oh, How He Loves Me
Oh, how He loves me. I hope…
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Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 15: Give Your Hurt Voice [VIDEO]
Q: What hurt took your breath away? How will you give it voice so you can breathe again? I pray Yah will lead you…
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Zara’s Tidbit Tuesday No. 1: Find the Hidden Seed [VIDEO]
If you’ve been following me since the early 2000’s you know I used to do something called YourHeartShape, through which I did 60-second “heart checks” to promote emotional wellness. Starting today, I’m doing something similar…but calling it “Tidbit Tuesday.” WATCH
“Thank You, Harlem”
How’s Your Past Showin’ Up In Your Relationship? | IG LIVE Replay – 5/14/20 w/ @ESHON BURGUNDY
Watch our IG LIVE from earlier today! It got deep and we had a question we’ve been needing a vote on (lol).
Marriage, Family & Purpose | IG LIVE Replay – 4/29/20 w/ @ESHON BURGUNDY
Watch our IG LIVE from 4/29/20…finally got it up! #ZaraHairston #EshonBurgundy @ESHON BURGUNDY
S01E03 – WriteNow Audio Podcast | Is Silence the Only Protection?
Zara talks about black women and relationships through storytelling, with highlight on the recent Netflix series “Self Made” inspired by Madam C.J. Walker’s life. Listen to her discuss the part about how silence has been the only protection black women can count on…and the power in telling our stories, anyway.
Silence, the Only Protection?
So often I’ve felt like my only “protection” is to just be quiet. Why? I’ve been trained to keep my mouth shut by/since…