Sometimes people hurt us, and we just sit there in that hurt….ruminating (meditating) on the hurt and the pain, over and again.

And again.

And some more.

Often in shock, because we didn’t deserve the betrayal, slander, back-stab, etc. And I get it, it may not be your fault…but it (your healing) is YOUR responsibility.

If they repent and add to that healing, it’s just “icing on the cake.” Yet, some people will NEVER repent and you won’t get that well-deserved reparation—so OUR healing is our responsibility first.